I've been looking around the internet and have found the basic advice on this subject, but am wondering if there are any moms out there who have the same issues.
I've been with my child's father for 6 years, and we did not plan on conceiving, but it happened and now we have a two year old. We are not married but have been together the whole 6 years. We never really talk about marriage, he doesn't seem for it but not opposed to it either and I pretty much feel the same way.
The problem, is that ever since our daughter was born, he does not help much with her. Every morning I get her dressed for daycare, pack her food for the day and drop her off at the center. I also pick her up every day, make her dinner and put her to sleep and bathe her. My boyfriend gives her attention, plays with her and stuff like that, but does not help much with the basic responsibilities. He does work very long hours and commutes a long way back and forth to work, so he does leave before me in the morning and gets home much later, but I am starting to wonder if he just does not feel a bond with her??
It's putting a lot of stress on our relationship, as I am constantly tired, leaving me no time to really play with her or get anything else done. It's to the point that I don't want to go anywhere because I am tired and it's also taking a toll on our sex life. Recently he mentioned to me that he would like to have more kids someday, but I cannot imagine this since I am getting so little help from him now.
Any advice??